Daily Devotionals, Light The World

Treasure

Until Christmas Day, the daily devotionals will follow the church’s “Light The World” campaign. I would love to hear how you and your family are lighting the world each day!

“For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” (Matthew 6:21)

When I think treasure, I think pirates. Willing to do anything, travel anywhere, sacrifice anything they can for the chance at a great reward. It is where they put all of their focus and energy.

Today our time is our currency. Where we spend it and what we do with it tells us what we truly treasure most.

What are we seeking? What are we willing to sacrifice for and what are we not? Entertainment? Family? Money? God? What are you treasuring and is it really where you want your heart to be?

Meditation/Journaling Prompt: Where are you putting your time? Does your behavior match with what you really want your treasure to be? If there is a disconnect, how can you reconcile it?

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Blessed are they that mourn

Until Christmas Day, the daily devotionals will follow the church’s “Light The World” campaign. I would love to hear how you and your family are lighting the world each day!

“Blessed are they that mourn.” (Matthew 5:4)

There is so much tragedy around us. It feels like lately every time I get on Facebook there is another family who has been struck by unspeakable tragedy–children, parents of young children, fathers, friends. Accidents, mental illness, cancer, illness… it can happen to anyone at any time. It is hard to comprehend and can be terrifying to think about as a mother. And then it is nearly impossible to know what to say and how to comfort someone who is going through the depths of such heartbreak and devastation. I am so grateful to know that when i can’t think of the words, there is one who knows perfectly how to succor those who are suffering. I think sometimes all we can do is just say “I’m sorry” and pray–to take a little of their pain and mourn with them, weep beside them and pray for them. Prayer is powerful and those who are suffering can feel the support it brings. Then we must listen and be ready to act when the spirit prompts us to say or do something more. I think the best thing we can do is to be aware of those around us and notice with our eyes and our spirits when someone is in need. The Spirit will guide us to those who need us.

Meditation/Journaling Prompt: Do you know someone who is mourning? How can you shoulder a bit of the burden for them, or simply show them that they are not alone in their mourning?

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I was a stranger

Until Christmas Day, the daily devotionals will follow the church’s “Light The World” campaign. I would love to hear how you and your family are lighting the world each day!

“I was a stranger, and ye took me in.” (Matthew 25:35)

I am a pretty social person, but I still don’t always enjoy putting myself out there. I can get stuck in my little comfort zone and so busy with the chaos of life with 3 little boys and all that entails and it can be hard to reach out of my bubble. I love to meet new people, but I am much more comfortable being approached than I am approaching others. There have been a few times, however, when I have stretched myself and made that reach. Last year some new neighbors moved in next door. Typically I would wait until a chance encounter brought us together, or until they approached me, but this time I felt like I should be the one to reach out. It was not easy for me, but I went over, introduced myself, offered up my husband for moving heavy things and invited the new family over for dinner. Doing so has been a great blessing in my life. I made a dear friend and we have the kind of neighbor relationship you dream of – borrowing eggs and butter, watching each others houses when we are out of town, checking to be sure I closed my garage door when I have an attack of anxiety and mommy brain and leave the house in a frantic whirlwind, and just generally watching out for each other. I am so grateful I followed the nudge to stretch out of my comfort zone and make a new friend.

We are constantly presented with opportunities to “take in” a stranger, but we often let the opportunity pass by because it is uncomfortable or we assume someone else will take care of it. May we face our fears and act on those impulses to reach out to our fellow man. Be brave, my friend. It will be worth it. And people aren’t as scary as we make them out to be in our heads.

Meditation/Journaling Prompt: How is your family taking in the stranger today?

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Love Your Enemies

Until Christmas Day, the daily devotionals will follow the church’s “Light The World” campaign. I would love to hear how you and your family are lighting the world each day!

“Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.” (Matthew 5:44)

I recently had a discussion on the Golden Rule with one of my sons. We were talking about how to be a friend, and keep a friend. You see, there is a key difference between “Do unto others as they do unto you,” and “do unto others as you WANT them to do unto you,” and he was getting a little hung up on that subtle yet significant distinction.

When we treat others better than they treat us, when we take the high road and refuse to hold a grudge, we feel better. It is that simple. The commandment for us to forgive others is for OUR benefit. When we refuse to hold on to the negative our lives can be filled with positive. There isn’t room for the light when we are gripping so tightly to even our justified hurt and anger. In turning it over to God and letting our hearts fill with love and kindness we are better and happier people. So if nothing else, forgive selfishly, do good selfishly, bless them selfishly–and reap the rewards.

Meditation/Journaling Prompt:  What are you holding on to today that you could let go of? Who can you pray for. Remember, if it is hard then it means its the right person to pray for!

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Suffer the Children to Come Unto Me

Until Christmas Day, the daily devotionals will follow the church’s “Light The World” campaign. I would love to hear how you and your family are lighting the world each day!

“Suffer the little children to come unto me.” (Mark 10:14)

I think it is hard at Christmas time to NOT think about children. Christmas with kids is so fun. Their eyes sparkle with excitement. There is nothing quite like making a kids Christmas wish come true. They seem smaller and more innocent at Christmas time.

A few Christmases ago, we were going through a particularly tight financial period as we made a job transition. My husband and I decided that we wouldn’t get each other gifts that year so the excitement of Christmas was all focused on the kids. They had saved their money up to buy presents for each other for the first time. It was one of my favorite Christmas mornings ever as I savored the looks on their faces as they excitedly opened their gifts from us, from Santa and from their grandparents who love to spoil them rotten. And then when they presented their carefully chosen gifts for each other my heart grew two sizes. They were more excited to give to each other than they were to receive anything from us. And they beamed with joy in the giving. It was a year focused on giving and it was a Christmas I will never forget.

I learn so much from my children and their giving hearts.

Meditation/Journaling Prompt:  What are you doing to Light the World today?

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Judge Not

Until Christmas Day, the daily devotionals will follow the church’s “Light The World” campaign. I would love to hear how you and your family are lighting the world each day!

“Judge not, that ye be not judged.” (Matthew 7:1)

President Thomas S. Monson shared the following anecdote in General Conference in October, 2010:

“A young couple, Lisa and John, moved into a new neighborhood. One morning while they were eating breakfast, Lisa looked out the window and watched her next-door neighbor hanging out her wash.

“That laundry’s not clean!” Lisa exclaimed. “Our neighbor doesn’t know how to get clothes clean!”

John looked on but remained silent.

Every time her neighbor would hang her wash to dry, Lisa would make the same comments.

A few weeks later Lisa was surprised to glance out her window and see a nice, clean wash hanging in her neighbor’s yard. She said to her husband, “Look, John—she’s finally learned how to wash correctly! I wonder how she did it.”

John replied, “Well, dear, I have the answer for you. You’ll be interested to know that I got up early this morning and washed our windows!”

Tonight I’d like to share with you a few thoughts concerning how we view each other. Are we looking through a window which needs cleaning? Are we making judgments when we don’t have all the facts? What do we see when we look at others? What judgments do we make about them?

Said the Savior, “Judge not.”1 He continued, “Why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?”2 Or, to paraphrase, why beholdest thou what you think is dirty laundry at your neighbor’s house but considerest not the soiled window in your own house?

None of us is perfect. I know of no one who would profess to be so. And yet for some reason, despite our own imperfections, we have a tendency to point out those of others. We make judgments concerning their actions or inactions.

There is really no way we can know the heart, the intentions, or the circumstances of someone who might say or do something we find reason to criticize. Thus the commandment: “Judge not.”

May we go a little easier on those around us. May we have a little more patience with our children. May we give our imperfect selves a break this holiday season and find joy in letting go of judgement.

Meditation/Journaling Prompt:  Today I am trying to have an increased measure of patience with my kids, who I know are trying to do their best even though sometimes it feels like they are out to get me. My 6 year old is working on not tattling on his big brother. My 9 year old is working on being easier on himself after a few hard days at school. What is your family doing today?

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Light the World, Day 5: Honor they father and mother

Until Christmas Day, the daily devotionals will follow the church’s “Light The World” campaign. I would love to hear how you and your family are lighting the world each day!

“Honour thy father and mother.” (Matthew 15:4)

Being a parent has, of course, helped me to appreciate my own parents more. It is hard to comprehend how much your parents love you until you have a child of your own. It makes you appreciate your parents and the sleepless nights they suffered at your expense–as a newborn and a teenager! The sacrifice increases your love for them, which in turn makes you more willing to sacrifice for them.

Being a parent has also helped me understand and appreciate the love my Heavenly Father has for me. With as fiercely as I love my child, and want to protect them and give them everything, I am imperfect. How much love our Father in Heaven must have for us in his perfection. The hardest thing to do as a parent is let your child step out into the world where you cannot protect them, and let them falter and fail and learn from their mistakes, and yet that is the entire basis of His plan for us. He loves us enough to give us that agency so that we can stretch and grow and then He sits back and pleads for us to use that agency to seek Him and come back home.

 

 

Meditation/Journaling Prompt: How can you honour your earthly and heavenly parents today?

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Light The World Day 4: Love thy Neighbor, Love Thyself

Until Christmas Day, the daily devotionals will follow the church’s “Light The World” campaign. I would love to hear how you and your family are lighting the world each day!

“Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.” (Matthew 22:39)

Sometimes as life gets crazy and hectic with small children, schedules, Christmas parties, and TO DO lists it is really easy to get stuck stressing about all our STUFF. At these times I find if I can get out of my self and serve someone else, it can really change my perspective. Things that seemed so urgent suddenly don’t seem so important and it is easier to let little things slide and focus on what is important–including an added measure of patience for my children and their antics.

However, we can’t forget the last two words of this very important scripture: “as thyself.”  It is easier to love our neighbors than to love ourselves sometimes. But as much as it is important for us to serve others and treat them well, we must also treat ourselves well. We need to cut ourselves some slack and release the grip on our expectations of perfection–a standard we would never dream of holding someone else to. We need to see our own value and give ourselves some love. Only then will we be able to share that love with our neighbors.

Meditation/Journaling Prompt: What is your family doing to love your neighbors today? What can you do to allow yourself to love YOU, just as you are today?

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Light The World, Day 1 – Give Freely

For the next 25 days the daily devotionals will follow the church’s “Light The World” campaign. I would love to hear how you and your family are lighting the world each day!

“Freely ye have received, freely give.” (Matthew 10:8)

I think the key to today’s Light the World challenge is in the word “freely.” It is easy to focus on what we might receive from giving. Really, there is no truly free giving, because serving always blesses the one who serves–oftentimes more than the one who is served! But that is no reason not to try! Our father in heaven has given us so much. He pours his blessings upon us even, and sometimes especially, when we are undeserving. He loves us and wants great things for us. The goal today is to find a way to show that kind of love. To find someone who we might otherwise see (even subconsiously) as undeserving and find a way to give. To find a way to give without expecting anything in return. Today I am taking my kids to a local homeless shelter to donate some gently used toys that don’t get played with much. Gathering and deciding which toys to give was a little hard for my boys. It was hard for them to see that they didn’t NEED every toy car, just a few. Toys that hadn’t received a second glance in years suddenly became their most prized posessions. The “freely” is a little harder for them. But I have faith in their goodness and that when they see children in need–not just the idea of them, but see them in person–that they won’t hesitate to give.

Meditation/Journaling Prompt: How can you give freely today?

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Where Can I Turn For Peace?

And it came to pass that there came a voice unto them, yea, a pleasant voice, as if it were a whisper, saying: Peace, peace be unto you, because of your faith in my Well Beloved, who was from the foundation of the world.” (Helaman 5:46-47)

This scripture stood out immediately to me today, but as I tried to write about them the words just weren’t coming out right. I have been feeling unsettled and just in a funk lately and peace seems hard to come by. So today, I will rely on the brilliant Emma Lou Thayne whose inspired words just keep coming to my mind.

Where can I turn for peace?
Where is my solace
When other sources cease to make me whole?
When with a wounded heart, anger, or malice,
I draw myself apart,
Searching my soul?
Where, when my aching grows,
Where, when I languish,
Where, in my need to know, where can I run?
Where is the quiet hand to calm my anguish?
Who, who can understand?
He, only One.
He answers privately,
Reaches my reaching
In my Gethsemane, Savior and Friend.
Gentle the peace he finds for my beseeching.
Constant he is and kind,
Love without end.
(“Where Can I Turn For Peace?” Hymns, Text: Emma Lou Thayne)
May you find peace through your faith in Christ today.
Meditation and Journaling Prompt: Take a few minutes to find some peace in your heart today. Meditate over the words to this hymn and write down any thoughts that come to mind.