Daily Devotionals

Depression 1

“Quote/Scripture of focus: In striving for some peace and understanding in these difficult matters, it is crucial to remember that we are living—and chose to live—in a fallen world where for divine purposes our pursuit of godliness will be tested and tried again and again. Of greatest assurance in God’s plan is that a Savior was promised, a Redeemer, who through our faith in Him would lift us triumphantly over those tests and trials, even though the cost to do so would be unfathomable for both the Father who sent Him and the Son who came. It is only an appreciation of this divine love that will make our own lesser suffering first bearable, then understandable, and finally redemptive.” (Jeffrey R. Holland, “Like a Broken Vessel,” October, 2013)

I have been reading this talk over and over today, and I can’t settle on just one quote to share, so I will be sharing from this talk every day this week in the hope that it will reach those who need it. Anxiety is nothing new for me. I have lived with and managed mild, moderate and high levels of anxiety all of my adult life. But depression is new for me. I am feeling a great sense of empathy for those who struggle with depression on a regular basis and figuring out ways to claw my way through the muddy tunnel I find myself in. I think one of the hardest parts is that, while I have a strong testimony of the Atonement and a Savior who walks beside me always, I am having a hard time feeling Him through the mud. Trying to recognize that as the depression and not as something I am doing wrong, or feeling doubt and despair that I am being left alone is a daily battle. I know He is there and I know He is on my side, even when I am having a hard time feeling ANYTHING through the fog of depression.

Meditation and Journaling Prompt: Have you, or anyone you love, experienced depression?

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Become as a Child

“Behold, he who has repented of his sins, the same is forgiven, and I, the Lord, remember them no more.” (D&C 58:42)

My 6 year old son got in trouble at school today. When it came time for us to talk about it, he went through a lot of emotions—he is my sensitive, emotional, artist type. First he got silly, then lashed out at me in anger, and then ran to the couch in the other room to hide his tears. When I coaxed him to me for a hug, and told him I still loved him and forgave him he said with trembling lip and giant tears, “but I don’t know if Heavenly Father will forgive me!”
I’m so glad I took the time to hear him out, because a powerful teaching moment presented itself.

“You made a mistake right?”
“Yeah.”
“Did Heavenly Father know we were all going to make mistakes?”
“Yeah.”
“So he gave us a great gift. Do you know what that was?”
“No.”
“A Savior! And Jesus came and suffered for our mistakes so that we could be forgiven right?”
“Yeah.”
“So what do you need to do?”
“Say sorry.”
“Right! Ask Him for forgiveness, and then try your hardest not to make that same mistake again. But if you do, He will still forgive you. He will forgive you every. Single. Time. For any mistake, no matter how big it is. Because He loves you so much.”

The tears stopped and a little smile turned the corners of his lips. And then he was off—doing headstands on the stairs and somersaults through the halls, a burden lifted because of the simple, miraculous truth of the beautiful plan of salvation and a Savior who loves Him.

Become as a little child…

Meditation and Journaling Prompt: What is your mistake today that is weighing you down and keeping you from somersaulting through your life? Do you believe you will be forgiven or are you stuck thinking your sin is too big?

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Strength through Christ

“My dear brothers and sisters, we live in a most difficult dispensation. Challenges, controversies, and complexities swirl around us. These turbulent times were foreseen by the Savior. He warned us that in our day the adversary would stir up anger in the hearts of men and lead them astray. Yet our Heavenly Father never intended that we would deal with the maze of personal problems and social issues on our own.

God so loved the world that He sent His Only Begotten Son to help us. And His Son, Jesus Christ, gave His life for us. All so that we could have access to godly power—power sufficient to deal with the burdens, obstacles, and temptations of our day.” (Russell M. Nelson, “Drawing the Power of Jesus Christ into Our Lives,” April 2017)

I’m so thankful for a Heavenly Father who came up with a plan so that I could progress and have grand experiences full of love and joy. I know them because I also know loss and pain. I am deeply and immeasurably grateful for a Savior who offered Himself up so that the plan would work. Who suffered in the garden and died on the cross for me. For YOU. For us all. In so doing he forged the way for us, intercedes on our behalf and waits for us with open arms.

He knows me. He knows what it is to be Nicole, overwhelmed mother of 3 boys – equal parts challenging and beautiful. Experiencing depression for the first time in her life and trying to muddle through each day even though it feels like trying to swim through cement. He shows me through little glimpses of divinity—messages only I would be able to recognize as such. And he knows you too. Watch for His messages. Expect to see them. They are there. You can make it through this, whatever it is, with His help.

Meditation/Journaling Prompt: NOTICE the little messages from Christ today.

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Our Divine, Inherent Worth

“But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)

 

There is a lot of buzz going right now in the social media world among influencers. The talk has been centered on being real and authentic and not so curated and on fighting the comparison trap inherent in social media. We are so quick to see our own flaws and ignore those of others. We judge at first glance and then hold ourselves to ridiculous standards which, in the end, just don’t matter. What matters is that we know our inherent worth as divine children of a Heavenly Father.

Elder Zwick said in our last conference “We live in a world that feeds on comparisons, labeling, and criticism. Instead of seeing through the lens of social media, we need to look inward for the godly attributes to which we each lay claim. These godly qualities and longings cannot be posted on Pinterest or Instagram.” (Elder Craig W. Zwick, “Lord, Wilt Thou Cause That My Eyes May Be Opened,” October 2017)

Satan will put so many ideas into our head of what we need to look like in order to have value in this world, but our value doesn’t come from outside apearances or a perfectly curated instagram feed. Our value is the same no matter what we look like, what we wear, what amazing vacations we aren’t going on or whether or not we put the perfect gourmet healthy meal on the table for our familes each day. Our value comes from the God who made us, for we are His.

Meditation and Journaling Prompt: Do you know your divine, inherent worth?

Call to Action: I challenge you to unfollow any account that doesn’t lift you up or makes you feel less than the amazing child of God that you are.

 

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Nephi had it rough

“And it came to pass that I, Nephi, said unto my father: I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded, for I know that the Lord giveth no commandments unto the children of men, save he shall prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them.” (1 Nephi 3:7)

I find myself coming back to Nephi often. 1 Nephi – the chapters I have read most often in the BOM as I repeatedly resolve to read more and then get lost in the Isaiah chapters or in the middle of Alma somewhere. But there is so much to be learned from Nephi and his faith and courage. Nephi ACTS. He trusts His Father in Heaven so completely that he just goes and does without questioning how or why. And even with that great faith and trust things don’t come easy for him. He has to travel in the wilderness for a long time and it is HARD. It took 3 tries for him to get the plates from Laban and required him to kill someone, which he really did not want to do. He had to mine ore, build a ship from nothing, sail across a sea without a map or any idea how to sail. He got tied up and beaten up by his brothers countless times. He had great faith and knew that God would provide, but that didn’t make his days EASY. And he was ok with that. He did the work. The HARD work. Every day.

Life is hard folks. Even when things are going well, it is a lot of hard work. It was designed that way to refine us and give us knowledge and experience. But God will work it out for you – it still won’t be easy along the way, but in the end His will will out. And His greatest desire is for our ultimate joy. So hang in there and keep working through the hard. And if it seems like a lot, remember it could be worse… you could be eating raw meat in the wilderness and not have any idea where you were going or how to get there while your brothers beat you up every other day. 😉

Meditation and Journaling Prompt: What are the hard things you are working through right now? How can you lean into the Lord?

 

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Woman Power

 

“Attacks against the Church, its doctrine, and our way of life are going to increase. Because of this, we need women who have a bedrock understanding of the doctrine of Christ and who will use that understanding to teach and help raise a sin-resistant generation.12 We need women who can detect deception in all of its forms. We need women who know how to access the power that God makes available to covenant keepers and who express their beliefs with confidence and charity. We need women who have the courage and vision of our Mother Eve.

My dear sisters, nothing is more crucial to your eternal life than your own conversion. It is converted, covenant-keeping women—women like my dear wife Wendy—whose righteous lives will increasingly stand out in a deteriorating world and who will thus be seen as different and distinct in the happiest of ways.

So today I plead with my sisters of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to step forward! Take your rightful and needful place in your home, in your community, and in the kingdom of God—more than you ever have before.”(Russell M. Nelson, “A Plea to My Sisters,” October 2015)

The church gets a lot of criticism for its all-male priesthood, but I have never had any doubt that my place in this church and in the Kingdom of God is just as important and revered. Listening to these great men and the way they speak about women, I know they know it too.

We have a special power as women and it is our responsibility to step into that role. In order to do so we must strengthen our relationship with Christ. We have to carve out the time so that we may have His Spirit and influence with us. Only then will we know His will for us and be able to put our power to work building His kingdom.

Meditation and Journaling Prompt: Do you know your strength and power? What are you doing today to build your relationship with Christ?

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A Man of God

“I declare my devotion to God our Eternal Father and to His Son, Jesus Christ. I know Them, love Them, and pledge to serve Them—and you—with every remaining breath of my life.” (President Russell M Nelson, January 16, 2018)

 

I felt a powerful spirit as President Nelson spoke these words yesterday. This is a man who is devoted to God and to serving us. I felt the love he has for us – a new level of love as he became steward over us all. I felt the weight of that responsibility and that he has truly dedicated his life to the Lord.

It reminded me of a very special experience I had when I was 19 years old. I left for a study abroad in Paris, France on September 7, 2001. I was young and heading to a foreign land to live alone with a family I could barely communicate with. 4 days later, 9/11 happened and the world changed. Within the week, the church held a special devotional for American members of the church who were living in Paris. It wasn’t a large group. Elder Nelson came to speak to us. I sat in one of the front rows of people to listen to him speak. During one of his pauses while he waited for the translator to finish he looked directly into my eyes, held my gaze, smiled and nodded. I felt an overwhelming feeling of love pouring from him and was hit by a wave of the spirit. I have had very few experiences like that in my life, but at that moment it was abundantly clear that this was a man of God. That He knew Christ and that he was truly an apostle of the Lord. I will never forget it. As I watched him change from apostle to prophet today that testimony rang true. This man is of God. He is a prophet on earth and he will lead us on our path to eternal life with our Father in Heaven.

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President Nelson

A wide array of feelings has flashed through my heart since I heard the call that will change my life. The first feeling is that of personal inadequacy. That feeling is intensified as I think of the incomparable power of Elders LeGrand Richards and Mark E. Petersen, whose absence we keenly sense. They were, to me, dear friends as well as esteemed leaders. Then, as I look about and see the strength of those more qualified and able than I, I truly am humbled by this calling.
Fortunately, these feelings are blanketed by feelings of faith, for I know the words of Nephi are true: “I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded, for I know that the Lord giveth no commandments unto the children of men, save he shall prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them.” (1 Ne. 3:7.) I have implicit faith in the Lord and in His prophets. I have learned not to put question marks but to use exclamation points when calls are issued through inspired channels of priesthood government. (Russell M. Nelson, “Call to the Holy Apostleship, April General Conference 1984).

I am excited to get to know a new prophet. I have a particular affinity for President Nelson as a former stake president in the stake where I grew up. This quote is from his first talk in General Conference just after receiving his call to be an apostle. It is raw, and very personal and I recommend you find it and read it. I love the statement, “I have learned not to put question marks but to use exclamation points when calls are issued.” I certainly can learn from that sentiment as I struggle with getting callings I am not excited about either because I don’t like them or I feel inadequate to do them. This reminder has come to me from many sources lately as I struggle to be happy in callings that I don’t like very much. There is a reason for each and every call, so thank you President Nelson for the encouragement to find the exclamation point.

Meditation and Journaling Prompt: What memories, thoughts or testimonies can you share about our new prophet?

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Boys…

Nobody knows what a boy is worth;

We’ll have to wait and see.

But every man in a noble place

A boy once used to be.

(Unknown Author, Quoted by Thomas S. Monson)

Trying to find a talk to write about tonight, I was doing my reading on my ipad while sitting in a dark corner of my son’s bedroom waiting for him to fall asleep. I couldn’t leave him unsupervised. I had tried that today and came up to find him sticking nails into the socket next to his bed. As I read I came across 2 different talks where President Monson quoted this poem.

I think one of the things that I have loved about President Monson in the years since I have become the mother to first one, then two, then THREE wild, energetic boys, is when he tells stories of his childhood. Stories of lighting things on fire and conspiring to drive Sunday School teachers to quit.

Being a mom of boys has been an adjustment for me. I come from a GIRL heavy family and it never occurred to me that I would have all sons and I certainly had no idea what was in store for me when they came. President Monson gives me hope that these boys who do ridiculous things, act without thinking and, though I don’t THINK they are actually conspiring against me or trying to drive me to insanity they may actually be from time to time… they can grow up to be amazing men who influence the world for good. In the meantime I will try to keep them alive and hope that the lessons I teach are getting in there.

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People are more important than meetings

“After all, people are more important than meetings.” (Thomas S. Monson, “The Faith of a Child,” General Conference, October 1975)

 

This is a beautiful talk President Monson gave years ago. The talk was impromptu and inspired by a young girl who sat in the congregation and told the story of another young girl’s dying wish to meet him and how the Lord orchestrated events to answer that child’s prayer. There are many lessons that could be learned from the talk, but this one sentence hit a chord for me. “People are more important than meetings.” If there were one sentence that could some up President Monson for me this would be it. The individual was always important to him. One single soul among the crowd.

In our house we have a saying—“People are more important than things.” The to do lists get long and there are so many fires to put out. But the people. The people are the important thing. I find myself resolved to make sure my family and the people around us know that they are the most important. Always.

Meditation and Journaling Prompt: How can you prioritize people today?

Call to Action: Pause in your day to day to refocus on people. Is there something you can put on the back burner so that the people around you can feel their worth?